butterfly27
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- Feb 13, 2003
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I've been going out with someone very special for two years now. I'd never have thought it possible that I would one day find someone as wonderful as him. A few weeks ago he asked me to be his wife and I'm now proudly wearing his ring.
Well, now a little problem has occured that really really bothers me: My parents are trying to talk me out of a marriage with him but are telling me at the same time he shouldn't take this personally, they like him, bla bla bla. And only because he is a black guy. And I am white. And races shouldn't mix. Whatever.
They say I'll be looked down on by society if I'm his wife, that I'll be responsible for my future children never getting anywhere in life and having a hard one to begin with, that I'll end up with a tough life myself and so on.
Now, I understand that my parents are just worried. But I don't get this narrow-mindedness. I don't understand why people judge other people by their skin color. I mean, if we rip the skin off people of any color we all look alike underneath - so what's the deal?
On one handside I am angry and frustrated, on the other handside I am scared as well. This whole issue has given me a few sleepless nights already.
I need an opinion from someone who's not personally involved in the whole issure. I'd really appreciate that.
Well, now a little problem has occured that really really bothers me: My parents are trying to talk me out of a marriage with him but are telling me at the same time he shouldn't take this personally, they like him, bla bla bla. And only because he is a black guy. And I am white. And races shouldn't mix. Whatever.
They say I'll be looked down on by society if I'm his wife, that I'll be responsible for my future children never getting anywhere in life and having a hard one to begin with, that I'll end up with a tough life myself and so on.
Now, I understand that my parents are just worried. But I don't get this narrow-mindedness. I don't understand why people judge other people by their skin color. I mean, if we rip the skin off people of any color we all look alike underneath - so what's the deal?
On one handside I am angry and frustrated, on the other handside I am scared as well. This whole issue has given me a few sleepless nights already.
I need an opinion from someone who's not personally involved in the whole issure. I'd really appreciate that.